A group of graduates, well established in their careers, were talking at
a reunion and decided to go visit their old university professor, now retired.
During their visit, the conversation turned to complaints about stress in
their work and lives. Offering his guests hot chocolate, the professor went
into the kitchen and returned with a large pot of hot chocolate and an assortment
of cups - porcelain, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive,
some exquisite - telling them to help themselves to the hot chocolate.
When they all had a cup of hot chocolate in hand, the professor said: 'Notice
that all the nice looking, expensive cups were taken, leaving behind the
plain and cheap ones. While it is normal for you to want only the best for
yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress. The cup that
you're drinking from adds nothing to the quality of the hot chocolate. In
most cases it is just more expensive and in some cases even hides what we
drink. What all of you really wanted was hot chocolate, not the cup; but
you consciously went for the best cups... And then you began eyeing each
other's cups.
Now consider this: Life is the hot chocolate; your job, money and position
in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and contain life. The
cup you have does not define, nor change the quality of life you have. Sometimes,
by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the hot chocolate God
has provided us. God makes the hot chocolate, man chooses the
cups.
The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the
best of everything that they have.
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. And enjoy your hot
chocolate in 2008!
Change is the law of life. Those who look only to the past are certain to
miss the future. |